Men/Women

Here's some points to ponder on how were different....

Womens hearts beat faster.
Men have larger brains but women brain contain more neurons.

When a woman says "I have nothing to wear".She means nothing new.
When a man says the same he means I have nothing clean to wear.

Woman offer unsolicited advice and give direction.
Men don't take advice very well.
The woman thinks she is trying to help while the man thinks she doesn't trust him to make the right decision.

When a women disagrees with a man he take it as disapproval and ignites his defenses.Men want advice after they have done everything they can do.Advice given to soon can cause a man to lose his sense of power.

Men are motivated and empowered when they feel needed.
Woman are motivated when they feel cherished

Men are visual creatures,once an image is in their head its hard to get out.
Women are inclined to remember emotions or how something made them feel.

Men want to be alone and think about what is bothering him.
Women want to talk about what's bothering them.

In conflict men were more likely to feel disrespected.
Women on the other hand felt unloved.

Women have shorter vocal cords making her able to speak with less effort.
Women speak an average of 25,000 words a day.
Men speak 10,000 words per day.

Men can be simple while complicated.
Woman assume that men are as complicated and as intricate as they are.
Men do not think deeply all the time like women do.

Women want to be loved,valued,respected,listened to trusted and held,they want affection.
Men want sex.

Women are emotional.
Men logical.

Men give directions to women on how to do things in order to show protection.
Women emotionally feel they are being told what to do because they are not smart enough to figure things out.

So just remember the next time you are angry with your spouse it could be just a matter of men and women's points of view and nothing more.